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April 18, 2014

Game with Life (My Success story) - Ronnield Francis

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Hi Friends, this is Ronnie Francis.... As I had mention in my IBPS clerical interview experience that, if I get selected I will share my whole success story. I am here to fulfill my promise what I made to you all.

Yesterday Maharashtra Gramin Bank results came and I am in, still waiting for IBPS Clerk. But I am confident enough that I will make it over there as well. I thought I should start working on this from today itself.

Now I should start with for what I am here...
Friends it was year 2011 I started for Bank exams preparation after completing my MBA (HR & Banking), I had joined coaching classes for it. I went for a couple of months, appeared for 2-3 exams but I was not that serious as it was just the beginning. I was not aware of the competition in bank exams. Later I got a call from my colleague saying that there is an opening in a pvt. company for Trainee HR. So I left my preparation, kept it aside and joined that company(DOJ-25th May 2011) started working with that company which I feel was a wrong decision, If I hadn’t stopped there, by today I could have become PO earning lump sum amount. I worked in that company for one year and after getting frustrated with the work atmosphere, every day getting fired from 4-5 bosses...I left(DOL 21st July 2012) and switched(DOJ-05th November 2012) to another Pvt co, where the atmosphere was much better they payed little more than my previous company. I was happy initially there; everything went fine till the month of April.

In mid of April month my mother fell sick and she was hospitalized. She was admitted for 15 days after which Dr told her condition is not good, she needs some better treatment by good team of  Doctors. After consulting to all known people we admitted her to another hospital. She became little ok was discharged after coming home again after two days she found difficulty in breathing and she was hospitalized again for the third time and was put on ventilator. Her condition started deteriorating , I thought I will lose her forever. After a week, her condition became worst. Me and my two sisters took decision to take her to the best hospital (Dt-20th May 2013)...and shifted her to other hospital...best one and expensive one. As I lost my father at the age of 5, I could not even think of losing my mother, as she did everything for us she brought us up so well, educated us... By this time we had spent huge amount of money and now we had to spent double of that what we were paying before this. 

What mistake we did was, that we did not make any medical insurance for any of our family member including my mother, even my company where I was working I was not provided medi-claim facility due to my designation. I made a special request to my boss and he said he will try for it. Now in this hospital all central government employees use to come for their treatment and they were provided treatment free of cost except few things they had to buy and give on their own expense which was negligible.
Now this was the time friends I realized what a government job is, it’s worth. I made it a point I have to get one as soon as possible, coz half of my mother’s savings was already spend on her treatment. I was really worried what about our future, how we are going to manage, and many more things started bothering me.

During this time NICL Assistant recruitment came, I had applied for it and started my preparation, even though our family condition was not at all good, everyone including me were disturbed mentally. My Mumma was put on ventilator for almost 15 days per day cost 20 K. It became difficult for us to afford, now time came we had to borrow money from our known people. I didn’t even hear her voice for 15 days. I could not even see her in that condition and every time I Avoided going in the ICU. After 15 days she came out of ventilator, she was on oxygen for few days and finally she came out of everything. But she became so weak after taking the high doze antibiotics she could not even turn and move her body parts, loss of memory, bed sores, pressure sores and few other complications of which we had to take care strictly. After a week she was given discharge and came home. Gradually her condition was improving and night time when she uses to sleep. I use to study for 2-3 hours till 1-2 am. And again in the morning I had to leave for my Job (Timing 8:30 am to 8 Pm) as I have to travel by bus 1 hour going and 1 hr coming. Me and my sister use to take care of her as she became bed ridden, physio use to come every day we have to pay him 300 per day, nurse use to come for dressing 100 per day to her and then medicines cost. Our financial condition was not at all sound. Still we managed somehow. So many times it happened that, I and my sister had to think from where to get money whom to ask. When we were in short of money. When my Mumma was alright we never ever faced this kind of situation in life, and so I was very casual regarding my Job.

After couple of weeks she became alright. I promised her mummy by the time you become alright completely I will get a Government Job. Don’t worry about our financial condition; everything will be fine, trust in God.

Finally my NICL exam came in July month for which I appeared and I was shocked after looking at the question paper. It wasn’t the pattern what I was preparing. I was preparing bank exams pattern and this was somewhat like SSC which I never gave in life. My GK was very poor that time. I was not disappointed at all, coz I did my best. But as I faced NICL for the first time I did not have any clue regarding its pattern. One positive thing I got to learn was I have to work on my GK. And the result came I failed, very much expected. But I did not give up…

Now after this in July month RRB PO and OA notification came and then IBPS PO, I applied everywhere later in IBPS Clerk as well. And continued with my preparation. I always use to make my Mumma understand, “take your medicines properly nothing should happen to you as it will affect my studies”, she replied saying when things were fine why you did not do your preparation at that time coz she knew we have to do everything for her as she was bed ridden and totally dependent on us and she use to feel very bad for us in such a worst condition she was concerned about us..That’s what a mother is, again I explained her mumma it’s still not too late.

August month we took her for routine check up by this time her hand movements were fine Dr told she is completely fine told she need physio therapy 2-3 times in a day to get back her lower limb movements. Trust me friends, it was very difficult for me to study after coming from my Job after spending 12 hrs and then taking care of my Mother. Physically and mentally I was not stable. Still I knew I need to get a job as early as possible. I took Mahendra’s online Test series and use to practice every alternate day one mock test. My score started increasing day by day and use to practice those problems which use to come wrong or which I was not able to solve.

Now September month came and my RRB PO exam came, I was little confident now. I appeared for it and was not able to solve GA section. Again I realized in need to work on GA more.

 Now again my mother’s condition started getting deteriorated as she was bed ridden for almost 3 months no body movement and became very weak, her bed sore was a big problem for me and my sister as she was a sugar patient. She got infection we had to take her for check up. Doctor gave prescriptions and told us to take special care of bed sore.

After a week my RRB OA exam came. The day I had my exam I was busy with my sister and the nurse to help them give bath for my mother as Dr recommended that as she was bed ridden my sister use to do sponging for her every day. I was not able to revise properly during the last hours of my exam and showed some anger on my sister. Finally I left the house mummy blessed me do well beta, in that worst condition. I gave my exam, I was happy I did better than PO. Returned home shared with my mother “Mumma I did well this time, possibilities are there I will get through”. 

Her condition was not good..She knew she is not going to survive but did not share anything to me, shared with my sister. Whoever use to come to see her she requested them every time please take care of my children, when I think this I start crying, In her worst condition she was thinking of us instead of her own health..That’s what a mother is...I told her mummy nothing will happen to you, Take Ur medicines properly, Ur diet. I have my main exam coming next month (IBPS PO) she told me pray to God I should be fine. I don’t want anything should happen to me which would affect your studies. I made her understand nothing will happen to you, you will become alright and I have to make our dream come true( My govt job and we wanted to buy a four wheeler) this was the reply I got from her “ Beta har kisi k sapne pure nai hote” this makes me cry as well. She knew very well she is there for few days. Which I did not realize.

And another line said by her was “ Ronnie beta I don’t want to live” coz during her last days she was suffering like hell. And every time I use to pray to god, please make my mother alright soon like before, this time the scenario was changed, I use to pray to god take her away god, don’t make her suffer so much, I can’t see her in this condition any more. I use to pray this with tears in my eyes.

It was October first week, her condition became same like before, Oct 3rd night she started telling prayers aloud. I didn’t know the reason behind this, my sister told her Mummy please go to sleep its late night. After half n hour she went to sleep. Next Day (Oct 4th) early morning she was in deep sleep she was not at all looking good. We had to hospitalize her again, borrowed money from someone as we did not have any money this time.

After doctor examined her, he gave me this reply, this time her condition is not at all good. BP going low, kidney not functioning well and bed sore is become deep.
I asked Dr please tell me frankly is she going to survive, he told me “give me 48 hours”. 

I remember 5th Morning when I went to see her in ICU, She was crying and telling why u people are not with me, u both are leaving me and going. I explained her, “Mummy we are not allowed in ICU”, this was last I spoke to her. Her condition became so bad she was put on oxygen two pressures sore on her body. She was not conscious now.

Dr called me, told me now it’s time for u to take decision she needs dialysis, surgery for bed sore even after doing all this I can’t assure you whether she ‘ll be fine or not. Decide and let me know..

Never thought in my life I’ll face this kind of situation in my life, it was a hard decision after deciding I thought I should let her go peacefully there were two reasons behind this, first I could not see her suffer more and we did not have any money to spend. We had already asked all our friends relatives...

7th morning she breathe last and she was no more with us….

19th was my IBPS PO exam, morning session and unfortunately that day we were supposed to do her 13th day, I could not study anything friends just went and sat in the examination hall, tried to solve whatever I could.

By this time RRB Exam result came I cleared RRB OA, however failed in RRB PO in GA section by 4 marks. I was happy I cleared first bank exam in my life.

Next was IBPS Clerk on Dec-08, I knew this is the last opportunity for me as I crossed age in August month itself; luckily I was eligible while applying for it My DOB (27-08-85).

I took leave for two months from my job, again a very difficult decision as our financial condition was not good and I was without salary for two months. I gave my BEST! Friends, tried to study and utilize my time as much as I can. It was very difficult for me to concentrate after losing my Mummy who was so close to me. All of a sudden her thoughts coming in mind and then I use to start crying for her. I use to pray for her everyday and for myself that god give me strength and courage and help me to concentrate in my studies, I am very spiritual person I have a lot of faith in God. 

8th December was my IBPS Clerk Exam Morning shift; I had already joined my office from 2nd of December as I promised to my boss that I will join from December month.

Finally it was the day of my IBPS clerk exam came. Before I could reach my centre I went to grave yard to seek my mother’s blessing. Went to her grave kneeled down cried a lot prayed to her bless me so that I can do well mummy. I cried coz never thought this day will come in my life. 

Every time I went for my exam or for any interview I use to touch her feet and take her blessing. And now I have to go her grave and seek her blessings. Things changed terribly which makes me cry every time I go there.

Finally reached my centre and when exam started, I was shocked to see the GA section as I am already weak there and it was full of banking related questions. I solved that section in two rounds...first round only those question which I was sure shot, counted it came near to 9-10 I had previous years cut off thought this won’t do. 2nd round I solved those questions which I felt logically what cud be the answer. And wasted too much of time over there. Reasoning section was tough too...
At last I came to math section which was horrible. I didn’t expect much, I started preparing for this year’s RRB and IBPS PO as clerical I am not eligible. 

Finally IBPS clerk Result came. I was so happy never thought I would clear it. Now I was worried about the scores, I was expecting somewhere between 100-110. But I wanted to get 120 plus, coz I felt that was a safe score.

Again after 10 days score cards were out and this was another surprise for me I secured 121.

It happened coz this time my Mumma’s blessings was there with me and almighty god’s...now I became more strong believer I am sure My mummy is watching over me and god is helping her to bless me. I prayed everyday for my success in these exams. Rest you all know friends I have already shared both my interview experience, selected in MGB, awaiting for IBPS Clerk Result. I will update it once the result is out.

Now friends my motive to share such a personal thing here is only for those aspirants who trying hard to get a government job and who are facing tough situation in life in their families like me. I know it’s very difficult to survive and concentrate in studies.

And those who already cleared the exams and settled with a govt job, they know what hard work is and how much it took for them to achieve it.

I would suggest never ever give up, Practice as much as you can, even those who are living a very comfortable life, don’t be dependent on your parents. When they have given you everything, its ur turn to achieve something and take care of them. Take care of your parents respect them love them, I know everyone love their parents but many of them don’t show, same was with me.

And I feel for it now, I don’t even have any pic with my Mumma which I can see keep it with me. Please take care of your parents and always show them to the best Doctors best hospital. Don’t think of money, think about them. They are very special to us. And no one can take place of your Mother and Father. Even though today I have a govt job, somewhere I m not happy, I wish my mumma was there today, I could have share my happiness with her. I can hardly remember a single day I don’t cry for her…but that is life, can’t help it…

Do well friends All the Best If u practice hard, no one can stop you. You need to sacrifice lot of things in life. Before I spend money anywhere I think ten times, is it really important for me to buy this, I did not apply for RBI coz I could not even afford for 600 Rs to fill the chellan. Still My friends helped me a lot.

There were few problem in reasoning like syllogisms and Maths some problems which I was never able to solve, I asked for help to my friends they told they will, and they did not even answer my calls, do not keep this attitude..always help others. Finally I got it from youtube and I was perfect in that.

Remember one thing if you do good to others , god will do good for you. Work hard, trust in God. The way things will change, you yourself won’t believe. And this is not the end of my Journey, I am going to crack this year’s IBPS PO. I will work hard again, rest God is there and My Mumma, when she was alive she did everything for us and now she doing miracles for us from heaven. Love U Mumma!!

This is a note which she wrote it for me, you can make out from her hand writing how weak she was. This happened once when I did not eat food coz  I got angry on her as she skipped her medicines, and as she was bed ridden this was the only thing she could do. This note is kept in my file folder  like all other important documents, My sister gave me this after  mummy expired.

I am sharing One song with you friends which I hear it every day and think of my Mother, Before I can start my Day. Please listen to it once (you can download the song from here).

And yes I have been selected For IBPS Clerk PNB Bank My First Preference, I have Secured 60 out of 100 in My interview. Happy and sad Mixed emotions as I don’t have Mumma to share this with her..But I am sure she happy right there in Heaven..

At last I want to thank My Twin Sister who supported me, she was a moral support to me, and she took my mother’s place. My elder sister helped me financially. And my Granny for her Prayers and Blessings. And all my colleagues who believed in me and even they helped me financially whenever I was in need of it.

Special Thanks to Shivani Ma’am, Gr8Ambtionz Team. Every time she had posted whatever I mail her.  :)

And Jisha G Nair, Who helped me to made this article.. :)

Thats all for now friends. Have a Great Future Ahead. All the Best all :)

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329 comments:

  1. Great achievement friend, your words are true, you are the real hero to achieve this in a tuff situation....
    I got selected in IBPS PO III and got CANARA bank, If you need any help regarding your PO exams i will share my experience with you, my mail id is takhilesh01@gmail.com.

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  2. Hi friend.. really felt very sad for u .. how could u manage all these .. I wish u all success in life !!

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  3. Good luck,i wish you will be very successful in life and full fill all dreams of your mother. But one thing is very true sab ke sapne pure nahi hote.I wish my dreams also comes true and ll be happy to my parents,specially my mother.God bless you.

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  4. ur real winner............. i have no word to say something more ............

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  5. cheers Ronnield for selected in PNB, ur mother is watching u, work hard. I also want to get selected, but did not clear interviews, wish for me too that in next IBPS i also make my parents feel happy

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  6. Great story hard touch n also inspiration story really great salute to u

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  7. Truly inspiring article, I have very less words to describe. But you have shown excellence in the time when you were most vunerable... this shows your greatest strength. Best of luck for your future ... (sorry truly have no words to describe)... may your mother's soul rest in peace ..

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  8. Tears came to my eyes while going through your story... congratulations on your selection brother ... i realize how bad it feels to see parents in pain .... as you said your mom's soul would be glad to see you achieve your target ..... may god bless u... and i pray such days comes in no one's life when one has to see his parents in pain because i know it almost kills u when parents are not well .....

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  9. don't know what 2 say..no words except tears in my eyes. must be a lesson for many people. congrats on ur success. and very sorry. believe in god. wishing u all success in ur life.

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  10. its very much heart touching and inspiring...

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  11. hell i cudnt go thru all of your narration .. but deus maximus est .. have faith in God.

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  12. After reading your story it makes me to do work hard....very inspirational story....All the best for your future brother....God bless you..your mother will be very happy in heaven...

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  13. After reading your story it makes me to do work hard....very inspirational story....All the best for your future brother....God bless you..your mother will be very happy in heaven...

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  14. congratulations and al d best 4 ur future po god is always with u vill be successfulll

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  15. really vry sad!!!! dis mishapping can't be healed

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  16. For me u r hero of real life. . .in spite of difficulties u finally achieved ur goal. ..congratulations :)

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  17. Oh God what to say ...Sir Ronnield your Hard times how you manage is commendable brother .you make me cry really I am so inspired by you much. Thank you for sharing your journey with all...God is with you and specially your mumma blessings always showering on you...wish you all the best life don't change brother help otheres in bad times...Now I will work hard for my upcoming exams you become idle for me .Hope my turn will come soon in success story.Love you brother....God bless your family with all happiness of life.

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  18. brother....very touching...i can't say anything....God Bless U

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  19. Hello Ronnie , I just want to say that May god bless you and your mother keep showring her blessings to you and your family and also smiling and showing her happiness on your successes. stay positive keep working hard .all the best for all your exams .

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  20. really nice one brother... when i read this one i felt that its just the person who has changed same thing happened with me... i too lost my mom... wish u all the luck and success brother....

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  21. Tears came into my eyes...
    Thankz a lot for your inspiration.
    Congrts bro...

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  22. Really inspirational. Thank you so much for sharing. I'm very sorry about your mother. But one thing I can say, she is very happy for you and she feel very proud of you. All the very best..

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  23. Ronnie..no words for me..it made me to cry
    may your mother rest in peace by seeing ur success
    all the best for ur future!!

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  24. great francis all the best for your future ......good hands off to you.................

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  25. really...inspiring to all......ur really great ,,u got success in dat critical situations..,, u r d real hero... i wish u ur dreams cum to true......may ur mom soul rest in peace...

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  26. all the best.dont wry.ur mom is with u.i dnt knw wat to say.bt very inspiring.tks u very much

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  27. song was sooooooooooo wonderful...

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  28. Ronnie Fransis.....Heart touching story....God bless you and congratulations for your success

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  29. really motivational hats off

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  30. May god give a peaceful atmosphere to ur mamma's soul ...............................

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  31. Good bro u inspire a lot of students who face kind of this situation........
    thanks for inspire us

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  32. It's really a Heart touching Effort and also a heartwarming Result..Congrats !!

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  33. Sad for what happened to u nd really sorry for ur mamma.........but gud that u survied each nd every most difficult situations of ur life...,& reached what u promised her..she must be very happy watching u from heaven..remember from now on she's ur gaurdian angel.she'll lookafter u......BE HAPPY :-)

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  34. really inspirational Francis ... ur mom is wid you...dn wry yaar... all the best :)

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  35. when i read ur story i got tears automatically from my eyes... u rocked... u scored high because your mom with u in every moment like god.... v get success in a good condition means its not a big thing. but in tears and problems we get success means that is our knowledge and guts.... all the best for ur bright future...

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  36. i was really moved..what can i say. i just thank you for sharing your story..you are an inspiration for many of us.i wish you all the best for your future n i pray for your mother. i hv also downloaded the song..nice song.thanks..

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  37. rulaa dia...me b tmharii tarah hi boi me select hui hu..

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  38. Congrads bro:):) I am happy for you. Your mother dint go anywhere she will be near you always.

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  39. Really an inspiring one 😊 Congrats. All the best for your future 😊😊

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  40. Heart Touching Story...!!! Soon u ll get PO also.. all the best for your bright future ..

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  41. Dear brother, my heart was overwhelmed with tears and sad.hats off to ur determination and fighting spirit.why god has given this much pain to u??? i dont know. i not even able to imagine ur situation of urs when u went for the exam after u lost my mother. feeling very very sad brother.

    brother i just want to say one thing to u. i'm dam sure ur mother will always with u and she only gave u this fruit for ur hardwork and perseverance. i seriously going to pray god to give u happiness in the place of ur mom in the rest of ur life.....i also pray for ur mother's soul to get into peace.......


    my best best best wishes for ur bright future and wonderful career. i'm sure u will definitely get through the coming po exam and going to njoy the moment with ur mom's blessings.....congrats once again

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  42. u had a hard time in life...but as happiness doesnt last long niether do sadness...do take care of your sisters and remember your mothers blessings are always with you..god bless u

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  43. great job bro,,,,all the best for ur future..............!

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  44. HARD WORK AND FIRM DETERMINATION IS THE KEY FOR SUCCESS. I HAVE ALSO BEEN SELECTED FOR PNB CLERICAL.

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  45. Congratulations ronnie... God bless u.. Lived vry hard lyf..but Godz blessngs r alwz wid u..

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  46. Hello Ronnie,
    First of all thank you very much for sharing this story with us. It is a biggest inspiration for me and for all those who thinks life is not fair with them. You are really very strong guy who have handled such a hard situation. I appreciate what you did for your parents and you never give up, whether how hard life was unfair with you. You should not worry about your upcoming situations now, since your parents will always be watching you and will take care of you. Just keep working hard, as one of my teacher told me that "Hard work is never wasted".You will win definitely. Your time is going to be good. Just have faith in you, your parents and God. They will never let you go down. All the Best for your future. My best wishes are with you. Please keep posting about your jobs and status. It will be pleasure for us to know about you. Good Luck and all the very best again.
    Thanks.

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  47. Hi Ronnie,

    All the very best to u in ur future endeavors and hope u reach ur goal very soon. Ur story was very touching and i feel ur mom and dad both r watching you :)

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  48. hie ronnie....u r really an inspiration...dnt worry n dnt get upset abut ur mummy as c s seeing u evrytme n i thnk if u r cryng den c vll also lament...so stay happy n reach d heights n ofcurse buy a car if u really wanna mke hr happy.....

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  49. hie ronnie....u r really an inspiration...reach d heights n ofcourse bye a car...ur mummy s seeing u n c vll b really happy..trustr m....God bless u....

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  50. hands up dear, really u r great having faced all d situation & losing lovely mother. u r great dear. god bless u

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  51. All the best for you. As i kept reading your article my mind is running with so much of things and its emotional for me. Your mom is always near you.

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  52. HANDS UP DEAR, FINALLY U GOT D SUCCESS EVEN IF HAVING LOST UR LOVELY MOTHER. U R GREAT. GOD BLESS U

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  53. u r right......life is totally full of struggles and sacrifices......ur story made me cry......and inspired me to go ahead and face challenges of life.......thanks a lot

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  54. Tears in my eyes after reading this .... Your faith is really a lesson to everyone .. God bless you .. Wish you all success in life Ronnield Francis .....:)

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  55. Hats off brother..........kudos to u for ur struggle and dedication.
    Can't stop myself from writing this comment.
    May the soul of ur mother rest in peace.

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  56. Hats off man... you are simply out of the world. Ur mother would definately very proud of u. God bless u. Have a glittering future.

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  57. Congrats Ronnie....
    Nd u deserve much more than this....
    Keep trying nd all the best

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  58. Heart Touching Story..!!! U ll become PO very soon.. All the very best for your bright future... :-)

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  59. I m sorry, we r always with you...

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  60. Maitri Roy (Kolkata,WB)April 18, 2014 at 3:28 PM

    Hello
    Ronnie, Its is very tough to imagine the journey that you have endured.. You are truly an inspiring person with lots of good qualities else you wouldn't have made this.. I am an avid reader of this blog, and i have read all your previous posts. May you feel every bit of happiness in your Life. Wish you all the Best. May her soul rest in Peace.

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  61. I m speechless...!!! truly motivational. :)

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  62. Dear Ronnie ur Mother And Almighty Authority is always with u. I am happy and sad both now, after reading ur story. u know when i read , tears were falling from my eyes. My Life Matches with ur Life Somehow. AnyWay, Congratulation and Celebration, Ur Mother Most be So Happy to see Ur Success.

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  63. Heart touching one... my tears fall... God bless u ...

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  64. Very Heart Touching story...U went through very bad times and now these are the outcomes...I wish you lot of success for your future...U are Gr8 too as like Gr8ambitionz......

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  65. Very Heart-Touching story....You faced very bad times and now these are the outcomes...wish you lot of success in your future...you are Gr8 as like Gr8ambitionz

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  66. ronnie ranscis..............i am also facing miserable condition............but when i read this story i felt that...........the people are facing problem more than me....i read the full story....during reading the story ,within a seconds tears will not stop from my eyes...........god bless u dear....u will be definitely the ceo of the bank one day...............

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  67. I shivered with each and every line

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  68. Your story brought tears to my eyes. Really friend, u r very strong. May u get all the happiness u deserve in your future. All the best!!!!!!!!!! Do your best and leave the rest to God.

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  69. u will definitely crack ibps po next time....god is watching all ur sufferings and he is going is give u some thing great...something u cant ever imagine and that which u can't even rate...all thru ur life u will definitely taste the sweetness of success...congrats bro for ur initial marvelous success ...may god shower all ur blessings in u..and also ur mommy will b feeling happy in the heaven...

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  70. Next Year U Can Try for PO Job.....coz now you have a stand to survive.Please don't leave any chances to grow in Banking Career.

    Almighty Grace u only when u prey him from ur gud times.
    Best of Luck
    Almighty's Grace always with you.

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  71. such a heart touching story yaar,,,,,,i have also faced that type of problem ,,,,but your problem is bigger than mine,,,,,,i also cleared bank exam.

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  72. is there one waiting for southindian bank medical check up result?

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  73. ronnie m happy that u get job this time, pray ur mother that next time i also get job even clerical, to make my family members feel happy in society, i failed at interviews of clerical 2013, 2014, po 2014. M not able to study

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  74. Dude I admit that I have not read this post throughout but still I got the idea of the struggle that you have been through to get to where you are at now
    I've got nothing for you but RESPECT !!!
    Guys this is what life can throw on the table but remember .. Life is not fair to all but those who grab life by the throat get what they want in the end .. Be strong & most importantly .. Be YOU!!

    Kudos to you man !!

    #Respect

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  75. Its Incredibal dear and i really salute you dat u didnt lose you hope and finally did dat.Your mom is watching you from the sky giving all her blesses and wishes.I wish u have a great success ahead and u tought me 1 thing dat whatever the condition or situation is NEVER LOOSE HOPE..Thank you so mch

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  76. very much attached to u by u r articles not in peety sense ......but wid ur positivity ,spirit....god will surely bless u dear.....u ll touch d sky in ur life ..............tons of wishes to u frm d heart and SALUTE to U BHAIYA....ALL D VERY BEST

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  77. God bless u Ronnie.

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  78. Hatts off Ronnie, You are a real man who faced that much trobles in life, I wish that you may get more success in your life, As I know no one can take the place of mumma in this world but my dear frined trust me she is very happy to see you in PNB, and beacuse of her blessing you will achieve new heights in your like.
    ALL THE BEST friend , god bless you.

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  79. I just want to say that first of all Big congratulations on ur success in the bank exam its by God's grace and ur mamma's blessing that ur hardwork resulted you with ur selection and Iam sure that this year u will definitely crack ibps PO and other exams as well because god and ur maa r there for you and they our showering their blessings to u and ur family.I respect and appereciate ur optimism and dedication .so just stay up, stay blessed and yes stay positive.tc............................

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  80. all the best for ur future friend

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  81. I just want to say that first of all Big congratulations on ur success in the bank exam its by god's grace and ur mamma's blessing that ur hardwork resulted you with ur selection and Iam sure that this year u will definitely crack ibps PO and other exams as well because god and ur maa r there for you and they our showering their blessings to u and ur family.i respect and appereciate ur optimism and dedication .so just stay up, stay blessed and yes stay positive.tc............................

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  82. Dear ronnie, u hav faced a tough time inspite of it u hav won all ur troubles, u did great work bro, really very motivational and inspirational part of ur life u hav shared with all of us. My wishes r wit u ronnie may god fulfill ur wishes nd u will be PO very soon.

    -Ur pnb colleague vinay

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    1. Thank you so much vinay. Hope to see you soon :) All the Best

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  83. GOD BLESS U BHAI, WE ALL R WITH U

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  84. Hats off Ronnie bhaiya.. Inspiring nd motivating.. U hav jus made up my mind 2 work hard.. I cud nw understand i hav wastd my parent's money lavishly at tyms.. Feeling guilty for it .. Thank u so much for sharing ur story.. Eye opener:)

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    1. thanks Bro. Plz do that..Respect your parents Become self dependent :)

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  85. really speechless...... im totally motivated ,, i wish ur dreams wil bcum true... may ur mom soul rest in peace..... her soul always wit u...

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  86. Dear Ronnie,

    I read and got what you are feeling now. God Bless You.

    Plz dont discontinue the preparation and be a PO this year by targeting IBPS-4.

    It takes courage to share something so personal

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    1. Thank you Rohit, Yes I ll continue with my Preparation. I have shared this only to motivate those aspirants who could not make this year anywhere and struggling like me.

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  87. really speechless............totally motivated...

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    1. thank you Kota Shanlini :) u have heard the song too..n u liked it..thank you so much

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  88. congratulations and be strong god v,ll b always with uu al d very best officer

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  89. may god bless you wish u all the best for your future

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  90. Hats of Ronnield Francis, dis article is very touching to my heart and make me cry ... God Bless You!

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    1. thank You Alma, Just Pray for her Soul to rest in Peace

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  91. Hats off Dear. U r simply out of the world. ur story made me cry. tears were falling from my eyes while reading ur story. Ur story insired me alot to go ahead n reach on peak.
    Congrats for ur success. All d very best for ur future.
    May the soul of ur mother rest in peace.

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    1. thank you. There are so many things..what i have gone thru..hard to believe..

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  92. It made me cry everytime while I am reading ur story...God Bless you...ur Mumma is always with you...

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      Thank you Bro :)

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  93. very very heart touching and inspirational success story.hats off to you brother.you'll surely become PO.all the best for your bright future

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  94. very very heart touching and inspirational success story.hats off to you brother.you'll surely become PO.all the best for your bright future

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  95. Hats off bro.....for ur perseverance and hard work .
    God bless u.....

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  96. Hats off bro.....for ur perseverance and hard work .
    God bless u.....

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  97. Hats off bro.....for ur perseverance and hard work .
    God bless u.....

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  98. Hats off bro.....for ur perseverance and hard work .
    God bless u.....

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  99. such a heart touching story bro.congrats on ur success & may u shine in all ur endeavours. i m sure u will crack po this time.god bless ur mummy's soul in peace..All d bst for future.

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  100. All d best for IBPS PO

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  101. first of all congrats to u as u ve succeeded with all the misery and anguish... i was moved to tears after reading ur sufferings... couldn't stop from commenting.. Ur achievement is something great which cannot be compared. U r the real fighter and u ve also taken life in a positive direction.. there can be no substitute for ur mom but she ll always be there with u... may ur mom's soul rest in peace... tons of best wishes...God bless U.....

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    1. thank you, I am So happy after reading your comment

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  102. Ronnield Francis ...!! salute .... !! really what a touching and motivational story of urs.. had tears in my eyes! May ur mama's soul rest in peace ..
    Good luck and may god bless u with immense happiness in future .. :)
    respect and regards

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  103. This result is your true struggle .GOD bless u Dear ronnie .u r so grate. UR Mother is Always with u .thanks 2 share ur struggle and achievement.

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  104. This result is your true struggle .GOD bless u Dear ronnie .u r so grate. UR Mother is Always with u .thanks 2 share ur struggle and achievement.

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  105. Congrats Ronnie,
    God bless you.

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  106. Really really great.... God is with you. Don't you worry.

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  107. Bro, i have no words to say.. i am nothing in front of you.. U r really really a great person... Hats off... GOD BLESS YOU....

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    1. situation made me so..dont say like that. thank you :)

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  108. salute you........

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  109. Its really painful that you had gone through this hard time nd still going through it... your story brought tears in my eyes.. But at the end ... I wish ur all dreams come true.. ur mother blessings are always with u.. thanks to share your inecdote..

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  110. ronny after reading I literally cried for my parents. .Ronnie u r mom is always with u ths was gudfriday god made me to read ur struggles to woke me up. .god bless u ronnie may the god will give u happy life..

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  111. quite similar incident happening to me......heart touching.......inspirational......may god bleess u and ur family.....thanks

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  112. thank you so much dear friends..it made me cry after reading all your comments and there are so many comments..i am really happy now..wht i thought n kept long back..has turned into reality today. I was waiting for this day, to share my story with u all..and most them our touched and inspired with this article. thank you once again for your wishes..as there are so many comments i cant write to each of them individually. But i have read all your comments more than one time, read it for my sister and Granny too, Even they are so happy.
    All the Best to all :)

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    1. bro wats ur fb id? I also got selected in Allahabad bank as p.o. this year. want any suggestion, mail me @ rht21@rediffmail.com

      plz go through this:
      http://www.nseindia.com/education/content/module_ncfm.htm and select commercial banking module. Its very usefull module when it comes to interview. only 1 book (112 pages) price rs. 1686.

      download this at : http://www.nseindia.com/content/ncfm/ncfm_CBBM_workbook.pdf

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  113. hai brother....u r really a great person....all of our prayers are always with u...God bless u...sure , u have a bright future..u deserve more..than what u got now....

    Shaari(kerala)

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  114. Speechless!
    I am sure you will reach great heights!
    Thanks a lot for sharing this post!
    RESPECT!

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  115. Hie Ronnie thnks for shring all this. we cnt even imagine yr pain dear.... i dnt knw what ti say bt one thing is for sure u r story has m

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  116. Ronny u have such a brave heart... ur mother blessings will be always with u....ur story life struggles are eye opener to many bank aspirants........ God Bless u....

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    1. thank you :) I always love to help others. Its there in my nature.

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  117. God Bless You dear!!!!! you never know... how , when.and to what extent.. yr life inspired others.... I am a mere reader of Gr8ambitionZ.com. updates...... bt today i feel some transformation takes place!!!!! Buddy i have almost same story like you....I am an MBA in HR.. frustated with my private job....lost my father in the childhood..I support my muma and sis.......after reading yr story i find myself fortunate ..to have them in my life!!!!!!!! even i promised my bed ridden muma the same thing dat u did...... but budddy dat promise get real determination today.......Today I thank you& Gr8AmbitionZ for motivating me..... this is the first time i m commenting..... next i will do after my selection..!!!!!!!!!!Dats A Promise!!!!!!!!!!!...
    with lots of love and best wishes!!!!!!!

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    1. thank u , that was my motive to share my story..

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  118. Really a heart touching story.... always feel happy otherwise your mother will also feel bad along with god. Your mother is still you in form of you sister. She is not away from you.
    You will always win as blessings of mother always works....

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    1. thank you vishal, That is what i wanted to hear from u guyz..very true what u have said..

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  119. Hats of u Ronnie.. After reading this tears in my eyes. I really wish u get achieve all success in ur life and ur sisters too. May God bless u and ur family.. Be happy and always smiling..

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    1. thank you deepti, what i have shared is not even half of what i had gone thru last year..it is just some part of it :)

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  120. god bless u and may ur mother's soul rest in peace

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  121. Your mom will always be in my prayers...God bless !!

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    1. I ll be very thank full to you, that is what we can do :)

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  122. Ronnie, ur very great....really heart touching ur story tears came in to my eyes...i really pray for u.and ur inspiring me a lot thanq so much

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  123. Ronnie u r the real hero, really heart touching tears came in to my eyes i really pray for u...and ur inspiring me a lot...thanq so much

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  124. brother really heart touching ,,,you have a gr8 strength in yourself ,,,i m sure you will achieve all the success which your mother ever wanted for you

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  125. i wish u all success in your life nd you have proved that strong determination in any kind of situation will lead us to acheive our goals

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  126. I cried by reading this story, its really sad that your mother is not here to share your success. But, obviously she is the one who is always with you now and her blessings made you get success. I will pray to god that you will get all success in your present and future life. Thankyou so much for sharing with us. This motivates many aspirants like me.

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  127. really great...
    plz tell me how can share my experience in this website..
    i got selected of BOI as PO and clerk for syndicate bank

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  128. very touching story... i wish u a very hapy life in future..god less u.. song is too good.

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  129. i had tears in my eyes while reading it.hatts off to ur determination and ur hard work.GOD BLESS U!

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  130. i had tears in my eyes while reading it.hatts off to ur determination and ur hard work.GOD BLESS U!

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  131. rula diya bhai....... god bless......

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  132. Not getting words 2 explain my feelings..ur story is truly inspirational and heart touching..
    Jst wanted 2 say u r gr8 frnd...
    N I wish u achieve watevr u want..
    May god bless u...
    Ve a gr8 career ahead...
    May ur mother soul Rest In Piece

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    1. thank you so much for your wishes, It means a lot to me :)

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  133. May God really bless u, ur family and ur mother in best possible ways..... You are a true legend. With tears in eyes I can only say, I have learned great values from you today.Thank you so much for sharing this.

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  134. Good luck for IBPS PO 4 EXAM .

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  135. Really heart touching .......thanx for sharing it ,u r here only coz of ur mothers blessings & hard work....may god bless u

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  136. Really inspiring, ALL THE BEST for ur next success bro.

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  137. Gr8man, Ur mother ll give a wonderful future for you. All the best. Last month my husband also had same situation, i only struggle for money & everything, then only i realise i have to get govt. job at any cost. Your story gives suggestion to how to study in bad situation also.

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    1. All the best to you renuka, U ll get one, very soon. Trust me :)

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  138. all I have is tears in my eyes after reading this... God bless you..!

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  139. Really inspirational friend... Heart touching.. all d best 4 future...god bless u

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  140. Hats off for ur struggle ronnie... best luck for d future god bless you

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  141. hats off to u brother...ur mom is always with u.....god bless u always...and congratz...all d best 4 ur future...

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  142. god bless you buddy.

    i pray that almighty god will give you everything what you desire in your life.

    hats off to u & ur motivational article. :-)

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  143. Hi Ronnie Hats off to u.while reading ur story tears not stop from my eyes. It is truly inspirational and motivating us how to lead life in worst situations also. May God bless u and give strength to. Lead ur life.

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  144. Bhai,I am PROUD of you finally you have done it....Its our Mumma's and God's Blessings,Mumma is Happy for You Still cant forget,what she told me,that,when i will leave this world everything Good will happen with you all, And really it is TRUE Miss her a Lot,PROUD of My MUMMA's DAUGHTER &,YOUR Twin Sister...:-)...God Bless YOU........:-)


    From Your Twin sisterB-).

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    1. thank you roma :) I wish she was alive..miss her so much..she is with us always..for sure

      Your Twin Bro :)

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    2. thank you roma, miss her so much..she is there with us for sure.lucky to have a sister so courageous n so strong like you.

      Your Twin Bro :)

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  145. U r really Gr8.High level of self confidence and hardworking

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